FOR HIM
For Him is Lovva's dedicated collection of sex toys and accessories designed for people with penises. It covers masturbators, cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps, penis extenders, realistic male toys, love dolls, cock toys, penis plugs, and fetish clothing, spanning solo use, couples play, and prostate stimulation.
For Him Quick Facts
- Category: Sex Toys
- Includes: Male masturbators and strokers, cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps, penis extenders and sleeves, realistic male toys, love dolls, cock toys, penis plugs, fetish clothing
- Common Materials: Body-safe silicone, TPE, ABS plastic, stainless steel, faux leather
- Power: Manual (most toys); USB rechargeable or battery-operated (vibrating and powered models)
- Key Features: Stimulation of the penis, frenulum, and prostate; erection support; size and sensation enhancement
Why Choose For Him
- Solo stimulation beyond masturbation by hand. Male masturbators, strokers, and realistic toys provide a physical sensation during solo sex that bare-hand masturbation cannot replicate. Textured internal sleeves, suction, vibration, and temperature-retaining materials all produce a categorically different experience from manual stimulation alone.
- Prostate stimulation produces a distinct type of orgasm. The prostate gland sits a few centimetres inside the anus on the front wall of the rectum and responds strongly to pressure and vibration. Prostate massagers are shaped specifically to reach and stimulate this area. Many people with penises find prostate orgasms significantly more intense than penile orgasms alone, and combining both simultaneously is possible with the right toys.
- Cock rings improve erection firmness and sensitivity. A cock ring worn at the base of the penis slows blood leaving the erectile tissue, maintaining a firmer erection for longer and increasing sensitivity during sex. Vibrating cock rings add clitoral or perineal stimulation for a partner simultaneously.
- Penis pumps increase temporary engorgement. A penis pump creates a vacuum around the penis that draws blood into the erectile tissue, temporarily increasing size and firmness. Regular use is associated with improved erection quality for some users. Pumps are also used recreationally for the heightened sensitivity that engorgement produces.
- Wide range of toys for every experience level. The For Him category includes straightforward first toys like simple cock rings and basic strokers alongside more advanced options including app-controlled prostate massagers, realistic love dolls, and electro cock toys. There is a starting point and a next step for every level of experience.
Types of For Him Products
Male masturbators and strokers are handheld sleeves with textured internal channels that simulate the sensation of a vagina, anus, or mouth during masturbation. They are made from soft TPE or silicone that warms to body temperature and stretch to accommodate different sizes. Some are manual, others include vibration, suction, or automatic stroking mechanisms. Browse the full male masturbators and strokers collection for the complete range.
Cock rings are worn at the base of the penis to maintain firmer erections and increase sensitivity. Stretchy silicone rings suit most sizes and are easy to put on and remove. Vibrating cock rings add stimulation for a partner during sex. Double cock rings loop around both the shaft and testicles for combined pressure.
Prostate massagers are curved anal toys designed to reach the prostate gland. They apply targeted pressure and vibration to the prostate from inside the rectum. Most have an external arm that rests against the perineum for simultaneous external stimulation. See the full prostate massagers collection for curved and vibrating designs.
Penis pumps are cylindrical chambers that fit over the penis and create a vacuum via a hand or squeeze pump. The vacuum draws blood into the erectile tissue, temporarily increasing size and firmness. They are used recreationally and by people who want to improve or maintain erection quality.
Penis extenders and sleeves are worn over the penis during sex to add length, girth, or texture. They are made from soft silicone or TPE and fit over an erect penis. Some include vibrating features or a cock ring base for additional stimulation.
Realistic male toys include strokers and masturbators shaped as realistic anatomical orifices including vaginas, anuses, and mouths. They are typically made from soft TPE designed to feel as close to skin as possible.
Love dolls are full or partial body dolls made from TPE or similar materials for immersive sexual use. They range from torso and lower-body designs to full-length dolls with multiple orifices.
Cock toys and penis plugs are specialised stimulation devices including urethral plugs, cock and ball toys, and electro stimulation accessories for the penis and surrounding area.
Fetish clothing for men includes jockstraps, mesh briefs, lace underwear, harnesses, and other garments worn for sexual and role-play contexts.
For Him Selection Guide
| If you want | Look for |
|---|---|
| Solo stimulation beyond bare-hand masturbation | A male masturbator or stroker with an internal textured sleeve |
| Erection support and increased sensitivity during sex | A stretchy silicone cock ring |
| Vibration for a partner during penetrative sex | A vibrating cock ring with a top-mounted motor |
| Prostate stimulation | A curved prostate massager with a perineum arm |
| Temporary penis engorgement and erection support | A penis pump with a pressure gauge |
| Added length or girth during sex | A penis extender sleeve in soft silicone |
| Realistic orifice sensation during masturbation | A realistic male toy or stroker in body-safe TPE |
Who Buys For Him Products
The For Him collection is used by people with penises across all sexual orientations and experience levels. Solo users buy masturbators, strokers, prostate massagers, pumps, and plugs for masturbation and solo exploration. Couples buy cock rings, vibrating rings, and extenders to add sensation and duration to partnered sex.
People curious about prostate stimulation who have not tried anal toys before often start in this section with a beginner prostate massager. Prostate massage is one of the most commonly cited reasons people with penises first explore anal toys, and purpose-built prostate massagers make the process more accessible than general anal toys.
People who want to enhance erection firmness without medication often try cock rings and penis pumps as accessible, non-pharmaceutical options. These do not treat underlying erectile dysfunction but many people find them useful for maintaining hardness during sex.
Couples where one partner has a penis and the other wants more stimulation during penetration buy vibrating cock rings specifically for the dual stimulation they provide during sex without either partner needing a free hand.
Choosing For Him Products
Identify what you actually want to experience. The For Him category covers very different types of stimulation. A masturbator provides penile stimulation during solo use. A cock ring supports erection firmness and adds partner stimulation. A prostate massager targets an entirely different area. Being clear about which sensation you want narrows the category quickly.
Material matters for skin-contact toys. Male masturbators and strokers in TPE feel soft and realistic but are porous and require thorough cleaning after every use. Silicone versions are easier to sanitise. For any toy used anally, including prostate massagers, non-porous silicone is strongly preferred.
Start small for prostate and anal toys. If you are new to prostate stimulation, choose a slim beginner prostate massager rather than a larger advanced model. The prostate is reachable at a depth of 5 to 8 cm inside the anus and a slender curved toy reaches it without requiring significant anal stretching.
Sizing for cock rings. Stretchy silicone cock rings suit most people for a first purchase. If you want to progress to a rigid metal ring, measure first. A ring that is too small and cannot be removed once you are erect is a medical risk.
Looking After Your For Him Products
Clean all toys before and after every use. TPE masturbators and strokers should be rinsed with warm water and mild soap, turned inside out where possible, and dried thoroughly before storage. TPE is porous and retains moisture, making thorough drying important to prevent odour and bacterial build-up.
Silicone anal and prostate toys can be fully sterilised with toy cleaner, boiling water, or a dishwasher without detergent. Use water-based lubricant only with silicone toys. For anal use, generous lubrication is essential as the anus does not self-lubricate.
Store toys in individual pouches or bags. Keep TPE masturbators lightly dusted with cornstarch or a dedicated toy renewal powder after drying to maintain the soft texture and prevent the surface from becoming tacky over time.
Goes Well With
Water-based lubricant is essential for all male masturbators, anal toys, and prostate massagers. Apply generously before use and reapply during extended sessions. For masturbators, lubricant determines most of the sensation quality during use.
Toy cleaner is particularly useful for male masturbators and strokers, which require thorough cleaning after every use. A dedicated toy cleaner spray makes post-use cleaning faster and more reliable than soap alone.
Cock rings pair naturally with vibrators during partnered sex. A vibrating cock ring on the penis provides clitoral stimulation during penetration while a prostate massager worn simultaneously adds anal stimulation for the wearer, creating a fully hands-free multi-stimulation experience during sex.
Read Up
For guidance on introducing sex toys into partnered sex, including how to bring up cock rings, vibrating toys, and new ideas with a partner in a natural way, read the Lovva guide on how to introduce toys to your partner. The advice applies to all toys in the For Him range used during sex with a partner.
Shop For Him
Lovva stocks a full For Him range including male masturbators and strokers, cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps, penis extenders and sleeves, realistic male toys, love dolls, cock toys, penis plugs, and fetish clothing. All products ship in discreet, unbranded packaging worldwide. Browse the full collection above to filter by category, material, and features.
For Him is Lovva's dedicated collection of sex toys and accessories designed for people with penises. It covers masturbators, cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps, penis extenders, realistic male toys, love dolls, cock toys, penis plugs, and fetish clothing, spanning...
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Frequently asked questions
What sex toys are included in the For Him collection?
The For Him collection covers male masturbators and strokers, cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps, penis extenders and sleeves, realistic male toys, love dolls, cock toys, penis plugs, and fetish clothing. It is the broadest male-focused sex toy category on the site and includes options for solo masturbation, partnered sex, prostate stimulation, erection support, and role-play.
What is the best first sex toy for men?
The most common first purchase in the For Him category is either a basic male masturbator or a stretchy silicone cock ring. A masturbator gives a noticeably different sensation from bare-hand masturbation during solo use and requires no special technique. A cock ring is simple to use during sex and immediately affects erection firmness and sensitivity. If you are curious about prostate stimulation, a slim beginner prostate massager with a curved tip is the most accessible starting point for anal play.
How does a prostate massager work?
A prostate massager is a curved anal toy shaped to reach the prostate gland, which sits roughly 5 to 8 cm inside the anus on the front wall of the rectum. When inserted with the curve facing forward toward the stomach, the tip presses against the prostate. Vibration or pressure applied to this area produces a distinct sensation that many people with penises find significantly more intense than penile stimulation alone. Most prostate massagers also have an external arm that rests against the perineum for simultaneous outside stimulation.
Can cock rings be used by any man?
Most men can use stretchy silicone cock rings safely. Cock rings should not be used by anyone with a blood clotting disorder, anyone taking blood-thinning medication, or anyone with circulatory conditions affecting the genitals. Any cock ring should be removed after 20 to 30 minutes of continuous wear. If you experience pain, numbness, or any colour change in the penis while wearing a cock ring, remove it immediately. When in doubt about medical suitability, consult a doctor before use.
What lubricant should I use with male masturbators?
Use water-based lubricant with all male masturbators and strokers. Water-based lubricant is safe with TPE and silicone materials, easy to clean up, and produces the most realistic sensation during use. Apply generously to the inside of the sleeve before inserting. Oil-based lubricants degrade TPE over time and make the material sticky. Silicone-based lubricant can also degrade silicone toys. After use, rinse the sleeve thoroughly with warm water, dry completely, and store in a clean dry place.